the big win of a women kind..

truly it is monogamy. imagine a women, she can't afford to just give herself to everybody as that would not follow her "woman" code.. she wants to have babies and to raise them, she needs also somebody to take care of the family, which is the man. man, naturally wants to sleep with many women as that follows his natural position, to make as much as possible women pregnant, which would ensure the flow of his own kind. therefore I assume monogamy is the big win of women kind as it is "against" the men kind and serves the purpose of matriarchy. Take it nowadays, many men are under the command of a woman, wife, lover.. whoever.. nowadays the men are (this is only a part of my opinion) a walking sperm private banks, truly, among men live many scientists, thinkers and hard working men. Yet we can't tell being a mother is no hard work. Still it comes naturally that women is taking care of kids while men are working to feed them and taking care of their material future. The question is, would women reach the number of scientists and thinkers without being bothered by their natural call (which I mean the pregnancy and kids raising)?