strange humankind..

the more freedom you give the more expectations for bonds are required.. me included this is what i am trying to understand.. if i give freedom it is supposed that the human will be happy, but it seems that with the freedom comes panic and once the order of magnitude, the law is gone all what stayed is just somebody who does not know what to do, nobody tells him/her where to go and how to do it..

as this is what could be the truth, it is easy applicable also on a relationship.. also here we can see both types of extremes - there with much freedom relationships one lacks a feeling for a bond - there in much bond relationships one lacks the space for breathing in..

this leads to many misunderstandings and situations where both are speaking but not listening, telling their point of view but not taken into the scope the point of the other one.. it is one thing how i see myself and how the other one sees myself.. no wonder that many times those two perceptions are not equal..